Friends of my age are already L6 or even L7. Crushing their careers. Buying homes, having kids. But I'm stuck at my level since 4 years due to unusually High bar in my team. I'm losing my confidence and question my capabilities. I'm 34 and don't feel like chasing anymore as I think I'll never catch up. I jus feel like giving up. I feel like eating shitty food, drink alchohol. No motivation to workout either. #mentalhealth #burnout
Donāt link your happiness or self worth to your peers. Do what you enjoy, keep improving yourself. I have noticed that average people are usually happier than high achieving ones stuck in a rat race.
Weāre not high achievers working at Amazon š. Even at L7. Weāre average or else weād be creating our own companies and inventions.
You are delusional. We are easily among top 1-5 % of US population for income at our age. Do you think average American makes $300k in their late 20s?
There is something that they do which you don't. You are equally capable, but execution is important. Please openly discuss where you are lacking with your friends n try working on that. Getting into alcohol n losing health will only make things worse. Hope you feel better.. take care
How many years did you work at Amazon. You could try moving to a different company. Maybe move cities if that helps. Maybe you can unfollow the friends on social media. Career and money is not everything. If not married, you can start looking for someone
i feel exactly the same because its a fact i am far behind as well. but you know what? there is no point wasting prime years feeling depressed, you gotta keep building and shooting for better things never give up
I'm in the same boat
Don't make any life changing decisions without post nut clarity, go fap
Shut the fuck up
Do you just post hateful comments on every thread? Get a life.
Seems like the post triggered ur feelings. Does it reflect your life as well?
Don't compare anything in your life with others, it's just a freeway to misery. Just see if you have improved yourself from yesterday, 1 month ago, 1 year ago. If not, move to a place which suits you best, banana factory is probably not the best of an environment for a lot of people to thrive. All the best
Nothing is more important than healthy life, i was once in your shoes while working at my prev company and its all because of my manager, don't believe them if possible switch the team or company.
Change the company