I have been divorced for a year now. Turning 30 in a couple of months. I recently went on dating apps to find somebody to date but it’s been so emotionally exhausting. Can’t find anybody who’s looking for something long term. Even if I do find someone , they ask questions like - do you clean / cook ? Any luck for the other folks who are trying to date ? #dating #relationships
Ethnicity? If Indian, matrimonial apps.
The reality is at 30 you need to start putting in effort. You’re not a hot commodity anymore and are competing with younger women. Why would a good man pick you over a 25 year old, all things equal? The answer is, they won’t, unless you put in some effort.
lol what the? “A good man” isn’t a predator looking to target young girls. There’s something called compatibility, shared goals, love, intelligence and more. Looks like you won’t ever find that.
Funny how you see men preferring younger women as predation, when really you just don’t like competition or are a sexist
Stop looking for him and get ready to be celibate. Thank me later.
Date guys 10 years older if you want long term. Men in their 30s are in their prime.
what is a good man?
What's wrong going with a mindset of finding short term and then convert to long term, don't boil the ocean right away
Here I'm struggling with my life and don't know what to do but people around my age getting married, having fun, even got divorced & now starting fresh 2nd innings Like explored all the things & I'm not even ready to start dating for 1st time
Then try dating ? Forget dating , just meet people
I am.in the same boat, it was a struggle
No one wants you because you're thirty and divorced already, not because they don't want some long term. Sorry if that comes as a surprise
Well people in my situation in India and US find plenty of choices
😂 I am finding men , even though I am divorced and 30. lol , it’s just that they don’t fit my criteria. Pretty women do find people 🤷♀️
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Get out of dating apps and embrace people in real life! There are millions of men in dating apps that are overshadowed by good looking weirdos. It’s hard to notice the good ones! Even in 2 mile radius, you will have 400+ men ! Imagine 20 mile or 100 mile radius. That’s like 10000+ men. And the only one who will catch your interest on the apps are the ones who are good at gaming the apps and beating the algorithm! And it gives you the illusion every man is like them! The good men are tired of the apps too! Best place is meetups, hobbies, common interest, for heck sake even coffee shops or work! If you want long term, figure out what you specifically want in them & then “be that person”, and you will find those guys easily running towards you. For instance, if you want someone with a sense of humor, be funny yourself, indulge in comedy shows, theater, improv & you’re bound to find your dorky lovable boy. If you want someone who cares about fitness, gym would be your place! If you love hiking or running, join a hike or run club - almost everyone is single there. Dating apps are for people who love dating apps & variety in dating & that clearly isn’t you!
That’s really helpful ! Thank you :)
I wouldn't recommend trying to meet someone from work. If things don't work out, it puts you in an awkward place. If they do work out, commuting, working with, eating, and sleeping together 24hrs a day, 7 days a week takes its toll on a relationship in a bad way. I've lived through both scenarios.