Turned 38(male) this year, single for more than 5 years. Focused in career the whole time after the last relationship, joined Amazon, been grinding, pandemic hit, back to office, but never felt lonely instead felt good n enjoyed my time. But now feels like it’s getting late to find a partner n raise a family. At the same time don’t want to rush. Maybe I was prioritizing the wrong thing the whole time. Anyone in/was similar boat? TC: 350K
Step 1: leave Amazon
I am in exactly same boat and in worst condition than you. You can DM me.
Step 2 - find a gf
You’re fine. I think decide if a relationship is really what you want - I have met people who suddenly feel like they need to settle down but they just go through endless short relationships because they don’t have relationship experience/actually just want to play the field and aren’t honest with themselves or others about it/have attachment issues But there’s really no rush :)
Are you desi?
Grind for a little longer and then FIRE to the Philippines and start a family with a woman 20 years younger. Easy.
Except those men never do.....just stay forever s8x tourists....
What is your age range for dating?
Yes I would say time is running out. Focus on finding a good life partner and raising a family. Agree, Focusing on career will give you good Tc and lifestyle, but whats the use if there is no one to enjoy the results with.
Bruh, you are 38. You are focused on career and yet are where most 30 year old are that too at Amazon. You don't want to rush 🤡🤡😂😂 Get a grip of reality.
It's never too late to start. Be reasonable in your expectations and work on yourself and the relationship and you'll be fine.