Marriage life feels meaningless
700k tc power couple duo sde family. Wife is frugal we never ever really spend our money. Have a 6 year old kid. No one is helping. Wife is doing bare minimum for our relationship. I proposed we can move to an Asia country to raise kids for a few years and start our business. She said money money money. We are not living in America Dream but making that kind of money. Saving a great deal of cash. Life is depressing. I tried to cheat and it was a great relief. Now I am going to cheat more with online dating. Girls slightly younger than me will go crazy for me. Cuz they been thru life and they know how hard it is to make money. I kind of want a divorce but dunno what to do. Life gets so complicated after having a kid. Sucks for beta man like me. I’m 35
Be a passport bro.
Still deciding. But it is so easy
It’s human to want to see other people - nobody can fault you for that. But if you get caught and your marriage ends you will hurt your kid. Don’t forget about that.
We sure as hell can
Clearly he doesn’t care about his kid’s feeling. Selfish man
Ask yourself what the reasons were that made marriage a good idea when it started. Then ask if those reasons still persist for the both of you. If they persist, fight thru the struggles and keep going. If they've changed, ask if you two have both changed in a similar direction, or opposite directions.
It’s hard to tell what it is about your relationship that isn’t doing it for you to the point you want to cheat. Just don’t be dumb about it btw if you’re going to do it. For your kids sake
OP should not cheat. He should get therapy or leave. Wife and kid will be far better off. Cheating dads traumatize their kids and wife for life.
My husband left me two weeks ago with a child after more than a decade. It’s the most awful thing.
Your wife is good thinking about your kids future and your family future. Why is it an issue?
he accepts he is Beta.
Did you purposefully ignore the part where he says his wife puts NEAR ZERO effort into their relationship??? Human beings specially couples have more to their life than just pop kids out
Beta doesn’t cheat. Stay in your lane.
Would you rather your wife drop 3k on a bag every month?
Your wife is smart. Don’t lose her.
We are tied together financially. I think that is what you mean
Same situation but I am 38. We have over 3 mil HH net worth but feel worthless and life is just depressing. I want to cheat too and I spend a lot on myself and looks. Op how did you start? Dating apps etx
What is your race, body type and preferred language? Are you good at breaking ice with a lady and sneak into an intimate zone with her within 2 days? Can you play with young ladies who are not well educated and less financially stable but still act like you care about them?
I am from india and married my gf. Before that I had 2 other gf who I am in touch with occasionally. One of them lives in seattle only and I was hoping to catch up with her soon. I am not sure what she would think about meeting again but I know she wanted to meet me as we have messaged in the past. I have not dated any woman after marriage but I am comfortable talking to any girl since I used to do date in india
You know what they say. Men’s dating life peaks in their 30s. Women’s dating life peaks in their 20s.
So true. So fking true.
For straight people, maybe.