I am going through a rough couple of years because of a family situation that has affected me and got me put on a pip and lost my job and now I am unemployed and have a 2 year career gap because of them. I am fed up with them. I don’t feel like working on anything career related because every time I try to, I remember what I went through and what I am still going through and what they did. I hate them so much to a point where I am fed up with them and I honestly wish i was born with another family and had a different life away from them. I don’t know if therapy or something similar can help with getting over them. I am trying to get myself busy with hobbies and friends, i even thought about reaching out to an old ex girlfriend but nothing is helping tbh, I forget them for a while but then I am back into the same shit with them. What bothers me is it cripples everything I try to do, it’s like they’re a curse they are worse than being toxic. They creep on you every fucking day, causing you to lose your job , lose your friends, fuck up your life and everything hard you’ve worked for. It’s not just my immediate family it’s everyone revolving around them and their circle. Out of desperation I even decided to switch up careers and get a different STEM degree and get myself into a new field of work. #burnout #depression #rant #pip #mentalhealth Tc 0 Yoe 4
Hang in there buddy
Genuinely sorry to hear it. Family stuff is really, really hard. Try to set firm boundaries and take care of your own mental health. At the same time, be willing to forgive, but make sure you’re not being taken advantage of after forgiving.
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You need to take a break from your family. Don’t cut ties but you need to step away. If you are messing up your life then you are not doing anyone any favors by staying in it. You need to be thinking positive at this time. Not about wishing to be born in another family because that is not happening but actively trying to figure out what needs to be done to get yourself out of the situation you are in.
It's a common thing, don't think much now
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this OP. It’s never easy to be surrounded by people who are less than supportive. But you deserve that support, and we’re here for you ❤️ if you ever need to chat, I’m only a DM away. Chosen family is real, and the sooner you can extricate yourself from their negativity, get therapy, find God, and plug into communities and activities that make you feel alive, the sooner you’ll not only heal but be on the path to realizing your potential. Much love ☺️
You prefer be born with Indian family? Come here with 300k school loan and wait 20 years for Gc?
Are you an Indian? It’s very common. Don’t cut ties. Just listen to them but do what makes you feel good. These days I only talk for the sake of it. Work on things you love. Go hiking, workout, eat healthy, meet friends, do well at work. You’ll start feeling good when you focus on yourself.
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