Long post alert ! My mom and her brother have inherited a property from my grand parents ( both of them passed away without writing a will so legally it would go to the kids). Topic of what to do with this property has been going on for years. Amidst all the discussions, my father and my mom’s brother don’t share a good relationship. Personally I don’t think my mom’s brother is a good human for numerous reasons I’ve heard and seen through the years( we used to be a joint family and I’ve spent few years under the same roof and I have dealt with things personally ) .My family is not as well as his and he has always been belittling my mother indirectly based on our financial capabilities. My mom shares everything with me as a matter of fact and that’s how I know of the recent incident . Over the years, I’ve always tried hard not to let his words affect me but this time it’s getting to my head more than I’d like. I feel so helpless that my family’s situation is still giving him the scope to speak the way he did. I’m not sure what to do to let it not get to my head. It may not be the same situation but everyone comes across such toxic individuals who make you question yourself and imbalance the state of mind . How to deal with such people ? #relationships #family #toxicshit
Your mom is a legal heir. Ensure that you get her the proper legal support so she gets her share and is not cheated. That is the best you can do
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If you’re not a legal heir, stay out of it and assume you’re getting $0. Encourage legal heirs to hire an attorney and mind your own business. Inheritance disputes and theft are common. Work with qualified specialists instead of attempting DYI or expecting other people to do the right things even if all parties previously got along. IMHO more people should opt for legal teeth instead of tolerating toxic family members.