My girlfriend expresses a strong dislike for men, often calling them stupid and rude. She cheers for female characters in movies or TV shows when they defeat or outperform male characters, exclaiming "yay, go girl!" When I asked her why she feels this way, she clarified that I am the only man she loves, she harbors resentment towards most men. We don't live together. I mostly cook at my own place and enjoy it. She has questioned whether I expect a woman to cook or clean for me. In response, I've said whoever wants to cook should cook, or more light-heartedly, whoever is hungry. However, she reacts strongly to this, insisting that women shouldn't be confined to such roles. Her attitude makes me feel uncomfortable. When I've tried to understand the root of her feelings, she insists there's no specific reason. She even poses questions like, "Am I safer with a bear or a man?" which adds to my frustration, leaving me unsure of how to address this issue.
Sounds like trauma, cultural or otherwise. Probably above your pay grade to deal with unless she’s willing to open up and be vulnerable to you. What nationality is your gf? Cultural context can matter here.
Run away. This will not get better for you. If you eventually get married, there will come a time when she decides to remove you and take half your money. Consult with a divorce lawyer and learn how to protect yourself
Bro you gotta run away from her asap!!
A common phenomenon also referred to as “b i ***”
She will not have children
Its toxic feminism surfacing, be cautious
This. Sooner or later, OP will join the ranks of resented men. She is just waiting for the right time to change her mind. This is her relationship pattern
Dump and run away. She will only bring sorrow
You two aren’t compatible. You clearly can’t see the difference between men in general and you the person she is choosing to be around. Let her find someone else I’m at my most “toxic feminist” when I’m in relationships that don’t bring me fulfillment, so maybe this is her subconsciously informing you you aren’t man enough.
Agreed. I actually start feeling like this when I don’t feel like my bf is enough of a man. I know the blind incels will come for me for this comment, but it’s true
The incels are upset because they never get the content happy side of women. They think there are some hidden secret women who are soft 100% of the time, but in reality the toughest women are super soft for the right guy.
Has she already told you that you were mansplaining something when you were just trying to comment on something without any intention other than express your POV? If so, run away
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Is she hot? What would u rate her
He rate his gf 1/10, still calling her “gf”.