Working new moms, how do you do it?
I am mom of toddler, in very stressful job. I don't feel that I can do it anymore. Job and taking care of baby is too much. Husband is not that much supportive. Seriously how do you survive adult life?
Don't work for a company that don't provide wlb even though they pay more.
This !
Hire help. You’re overworking and stress isn’t worth you dying 10 years earlier if you’re just gonna work all your life….
Divorce your husband and get alimony, he’ll be supportive then.
It will eventually become better in few years. Hang in there! Do not set high expectations for your self personally or professionally. Try to survive with as much minimal effort as possible for your sanity. You will become better at juggling and start living instead of surviving.
This. If you can hang in there until your child reaches age 4, things will get better. In the meantime, hire some help and/or get a job with a better WLB
That is what wlb is for. If long work hours needed regularly than either change team or company. Although if you have a toddler and made it to 1.5 years or so than just keep doing what you are doing.
We have 35.6 trillion in debt and need to pay for the chosen people's empire of Judea down to the last American tax payer. You need to keep hustling to keep up with their money printer. Just be lucky inflation is only 3%.
Here are the options, 1) Make your husband to support you more 2) Get help from family (grandmothers and grandfathers) to have some temporary relief. 3) Hire a nanny who stays overnight check au pair program. 4) Take a break from your work and become a full time mom. If you earn more than your husband then it would make more sense for him to take a break from his job and take care of the kid.
Why is your husband not helping? Get that man to do work at home as well. Wtf.
Stop working. Being a mom is your primary job
Bad advice!
You will get used to it. Just stay there, Don't give up yet !