Any suggestions from anyone whoz partner cheated and still staying in marriage becs of kid. My husband hide all his saving in home country and asks me to be in marriage for kids sake / education as it’s expensive. As a single mom he says I can’t afford and if I divorce I won’t be getting any money Beca we both r working. With 0 savings in Bay Area.
It’s a free world and getting divorce just because your husband slept with someone else is not a good idea when you have kids. Maybe he was not satisfied with you and wanted some excitement in his life. Again are you divorcing him for the money or you are not happy with him?
What a douche
In reality, if they hadn’t discussed this before as implied by the word cheating, then this is clear grounds for divorce.
Lol no, if you divorce and you get full custody, he will be paying child support for each kid. And you will probably get money on top of that for pay difference and stuff. Not sure about off shore money, but lawyers can help you with that.
I want kid to have father in his life.
But I don’t want to see him..
Ask your friends and family, not blind
This, people should talk to their family and friends and not take relationships advice from blind.
Yeah your husband doesn't know what he's talking about, and if he tries to hide assets from the divorce court, he'll be facing felony criminal charges. Take him for everything he's got.
If the money is not in his name, no court can take that money away.
Sure it can. He gets his wages garnished in the U.S. and is found in contempt of court.
Which country is he hiding in?
India
I think he's scaring you with the wrong advice Although a lot of hidden money could be in parents name there would be huge chunk in his name in a NRI assets which US can ask India for easily. But you'll get the child support nevertheless unless he goes jobless.
You also cheat. Have some good s***. Now you guys are equal
You need to find legal support. I would suggest you do a search for legal aid in your area and see if they can help.
You need to talk to a divorce lawyer. They know how to deal with hidden assets.
Spoke to them they deal only with usa assets. Since I don’t know where he hiding his money
It's his money in your wording, so what the fuck you want to steal his money? If you can't afford to live in bay area then you make something wrong.
Who told u it’s his money..
Not an answer but don’t take financial / legal advice from a person that has already betrayed you.
Amen.
This. He has engaged in fraud if he’s hidden his assets