Parent think I don’t care about my son
I’m so fucking hurt. We are working parents with a 1.5 yr boy. My parents are here to help us right now. My son recently started to attend daycare and got a running nose this week. He’s a super nice kid, always eats well and sleeps well. However tonight he woke up at 10 and cried a little. Me & my wife both got up to comfort him (he sleeps in his own bedroom), but he kept crying. 5 or so min later my mom came out of her room and said she would like to take over. I said don’t worry we got it. My mom went back to her room and I could clear hear her complaining to my aunt (who’s visiting us) that how much I don’t trust her and am not even letting her try. I’m like WTF is this about trust, I’m already doing this and it’s not even been 10min. For whatever reason my son did not like me much tonight and kept crying. After a while my mom came back again and quickly took him away from me. My son was probably too tired and felt asleep by my mom soon. I was so mad but I couldn’t do much with my mom. She apparently thinks 1) I don’t know anything about my kid 2) I don’t care if he’s unwell (I literally just cleaned his nose twice to make him feel better WTF) 3) I don’t trust her capability to take care of him 4) I’m annoying, because she thinks my wife wanted her to help but I’m blocking it (so wrong, my wife is already feeling she can’t even get close to her son and she does not want to argue with my mom) How to fucking deal with this relationship? This is so stupid. I thought you gotta let the new parents do their job and even if you think they are stupid, you have to respect their actions and decisions unless it’s obviously wrong and harmful. BTW mom does take decent care of the kid. But she gets frustrated very quickly whenever he cries and thinks she’s the only one who can and must fix it.
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You don’t care. Children are full time job. If you think your work is more important then you shouldn’t have had a kid. Truth hurts.
Unhelpful response, and does not address at all what OP is asking.
Stfu. Working parents really have different struggles. Grow up.
Op! These kind of things happen when parents are over here. It may be in a heat of the moment but take it lightly. Don’t stress on this much. You only know how much you like your kid and what it really takes to work and look after him. He will understand one day and keep that in your mind and move on.
There is scope to grow as a person for you. Grow up selfish fish 😅
Indian? 😂 If yes then there is no way to change Indian grandparents who are experts on other people's problems.
I think dnt take personally it's fine She is still your mom and she loves more than you think You should be proud of her
Why are you living with your mom!?
A 1.5 years baby is still relatively small. Because your mom spends more time with them, they feel more comfortable with her in case if distress. Not your fault, but think from the baby's perspective.
She's right
Classic toxic Asian parents. I’ve learned to put my parents in their place many many times. It hurts their feelings but I’ve stopped caring. Asian parents frequently cross boundaries that any adult should not have to tolerate. Good luck getting better advice here on blind most Indians and Asians are parent worshipers because they’ve been conditioned by their parents to always respect the parents even when they’re wrong or toxic.