I barely started trying to date again. But 4 guys in a row I've met mommas boys. And I felt like dating one of them is a red flag. First of all they depend on them to much and then second they expect you to baby them. They expect everything done for them. Like I want a man. Not a baby. You should be able to do sh*t for yourself. Why should I do it for you? I understand sometimes helping you out here or there but 24/7, gtfo. Look for a maid not a girlfriend. Girlies I know you feel the same.
Being momma's boy is fine. But if the momma didn't train them well that's not fine. I never dated guys who needed a maid.
No. Adults should be self sufficient humans
Indian? Either way, I wouldn’t touch that with a ten foot pole. A “mamas boy” comes from a family culture that places high value on being male and low value on being female. That is the lens he looks through and expects you to do everything for him and that’s how his family will look at you too. Either way, you should not be giving husband treatment to just a boyfriend, let alone some guy you’re just seeing casually.
I hear Indians use the term a lot. I think momma’s boy in the west doesn’t have the same stigma. I think I’m a mommas boy, i send her flowers on Mother’s Day or dinner or something she’s been talking about, I’ve flown to the east coast to surprise her on a special occasion. I love making her happy But I’ve also set clear boundaries with her and when i was growing up the rules were pretty strict, i had to help around the house, no free meals
Stop dating Indians.
OP listen to this guy. Date Americans instead. They have too many moms to be overly attached to one.
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The women I know and dated who went around calling everyone a mama’s boy had severe internal issues within their family. They either had daddy issues, raised by narcissistic mothers and so on. Is that you OP?
Gaslighter!
Yep, ever notice how all the comments on blind find some way to turn it around on the woman?
I hate to say this but the only true unconditional love a man is likely to ever experience is from his mother.
Being a mamas boy and being a man are two different things. If boy has a strong father then he will behave like a man
I wouldn’t know, I grew up an orphan, lost my parents young. Apparently that was a red flag with some ladies when I was dating.
Just add it to the list of icks https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLxof6wo/
-- t. a woman with severe daddy issue (you forgot to put this at the end, you are welcome)
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I like malaka :)