Manager finds ways to tell me things that are very obvious aspects of workplace, tasks in general which indirectly feels like an insult .. how do you deal with such things? .. last Friday she told me - if you don't have something to say then mute your mic on the call while not everyone does it TC 2...Read more
I got zero rewards in Sept 2023 making me ineligible for internal team change. This year I want to request my management to give me some rewards but at the same time I don't want to sound like I am asking for team change eligibility. How to go about asking for some rewards to management? #zerorew...Read more
The one supplied at work is too rough for my skin. I want to use a premium brand. Will it look weird if I carry it with me from my desk whenever I need to use the restroom?
I joined this company almost a year ago, and I’m currently 5 months pregnant. It has been a horrible pregnancy so far, I’ve had multiple issues over the span of the last 4 months, including multiple visits to emergency, monthly infections, constant nausea, GERD etc. My workplace has been pretty tox...Read more
Random co worker who I don’t know and he seems to be way senior to me working in a California office just cold IMs me ( in the portland office ) asking if he can order some electronics to my home and requesting if i can ship it to him to save sales tax . He just copy pasted a template message and ...Read more
https://www.visualcapitalist.com/the-best-u-s-companies-to-work-for-according-to-linkedin/ Really? Jp Morgan? Amazon? Is this surprising to anyone else?
What are some ways in which I can deal with daily situations with the coworker. This coworker is an "all talk" kind of person, who does like 5% of the work, but takes credit for work done by others and presents it as their own. When it's something they were supposed to have finished/fixed but haven...Read more
Im swe in my mid 30s, couple of kids, good wlb, mostly happy. Im not really interested in grinding and trying to get to the next position. Looking into doing the least amount of work for the most pay. I frequently get asked to partner up for different businesses or startup ideas which i mostly igno...Read more
A while back, I shared how I was trying to keep up with the avalanche of info on Slack, as a newbie, like from the teams, different groups, specialties, vibes, people, clubs, IT, DMs, you name it. There's just a ton of Slack messages, and no time to read them all. At my last job, things were way mor...Read more
Hi, I’m going to be working at the headquarters soon and was wondering what the dress code is like. Is a polo and sneakers fine?
Although we want to be inclusive of everyone including people with tattoos, you are disconnected from reality if you get yourself all these piercing, horns and tattoos and expect to be hired at companies with a customer facing role. https://www.businessinsider.com/tattoos-shouldnt-be-important-in-j...Read more
SWE here. Sometime it’s difficult to motivate myself to work. How do people motivate themselves on delivering some XY services which would bring revenue or solve some issues! I mean why should I care? Even If it solves anything, I mean why should I as an individual care about it! I meet managers wh...Read more
Looking for ideas, any solutions to this issue Which companies are employees first and not shareholders first? https://youtu.be/raVms8w61No?feature=shared
I have a weekly meeting with another manager and his direct report. My manager doesn’t attend those meetings as he wants this other manager to lead this work. During the meetings even while I am presenting the manager has a conversation with his direct report. The direct report then needs to show hi...Read more
Posting for a friend. Recently, my boss sent invites for everyone’s birthday to the team but forgot mine. I can’t help but feel ignored and under appreciated. Last year I also noticed we said happy birthday during team meetings to everyone through the year but again nothing for me. It’s in my wor...Read more
So I noticed certain patterns and was wondering if my coworkers secretly hate me. I have been in this team for 1 year. I didn’t interview in this team, a manager took me with him when he got this team and then he left. 5 of my teammates hang out with each other after work, go on hikes and what not....Read more
Anyone lives in NYC and commutes to Jersey City for work (industry does not matter)? I’ve been apprehensive about applying to roles in Jersey City and Newark but I’m looking to expand my scope. 1. Borough you live in? 2. How’s the commute in terms of time and mode of transportation. 3. Common issue...Read more
How's work and culture? How's the relationship among people in general? TC: 100k #meta
Feels like I joined a toxic team where everyone is constantly trying to one up another or claim credit for the smallest bit of work. I talked to my new joinee mentor and they said it's pretty recent change and they are aware of it. Should I bring this up to EM during our syncs ? Would like a team w...Read more