People in the US, especially women, have you managed to build a support system here.. and if so, I would love your advice on how.. Living away from my family has made me really sad and most of the girls I meet have not really wanted to emotionally invest in the friendship , just be hangout buddies, with a lot of disrespect and also backstabbing.. and guys always try to hook up or be in a relationship With girls, I always try to be nice first, i call them out, introduce them to people etc.. but they just end up showing a lack of gratitude and kindness, and in fact do really mean hurtful things.. I am thinking of joining a church even though I don’t belong to that religion, because I thought I mind find nicer women there Can someone who has successfully build meaningful relationships tell me how.. Ps: please be kind I’m going through a hard time
US is hyper individualistic society. There are certain parts of USA like Midwest where you will find communal living. But for the most part, people don't have great support system apart from their spouse and kids.
It’s called drugs
Ditto! Are you in NY? Dm let’s meet :)
Come to the Sunnyvale Hindu temple. You'll find a great support group here.
How? People talk to new people at the temple? I wouldn’t mind meeting people there
Yes. We meet regularly at noon during weekends and talk while consuming the free lunch offered at the temple.
Hard to find a support system in US. I am in bay area too (east bay though) if you would like to connect dm me
If you are in bay area, DM me!
Best support group I got is from connecting to right people from some of the hobby group. Perusing the same hobby, connected to this group through Nextdoor neighborhood, It took me 3-4 years to connect to right people and create inner circle. Patience is the key to understand if you can trust that individual to be vulnerable around and have them weigh into very important decisions of your life
Which hobby
It’s up to you whatever you are interested in. For me it was hiking, book club and painting