trying to get a girl to marry, however she wants a $1k-$3k gift (ex: bag) like once per 3-6 months, is that OK or red flag? goal is evaluate for a good wife potential. her appearence is 7/10, 5'8, asian, tc is < 80k tc 400k #girl #girlfriend #marriage #divorce #apple #microsoft #meta #amazon #goog...Read more
I still miss her and our relationship. I just realized we would have been dating 8 years now, if covid didn’t happen and we had a big fight during our long distance relationship that broke us
Hello friends, I will be honest I’m a very nerdy guy who has zero skills speaking to women. I used to be good at academics, but my TC isn’t all that special (190k in HCOL), so I just kind of assumed I would never get married and decided to grind on my work (I spend most weekends on YouTube or just ...Read more
We have been casually talking for months.Caught a woman in a lie. She tried to present herself to me as having never had a boyfriend and as a virgin. However, her mom slipped that a guy once mentioned marrying her in the past. Last time we met, I pressed on my suspicions that she had never had a boy...Read more
You miss out on a lot of things , your freedom is taken off, can't travel on the whim, can't sleep with other women. Can't even flirt. Feels like a prison. What's the point of having all rhe money and living in a prison? Kids are another headache. You lose your sleep, health and freedom after marria...Read more
Met a woman last night at a bar who was pretty cool, we talked for a couple hours, really good chemistry (lots of commonalities and laughs). But at the end she told me to add her on LinkedIn, not ig and told me to reach out if i want to join her company (not that way). Curious if she’s expanding he...Read more
It’s been few years but this question still confuses me. I found my wife on a marriage portal in India. On the first meeting I went to her place to meet her parents and brother then on the second meeting her parent came to meet my parents. During their visit her father asked a question, ‘Did any of ...Read more
Let's see what blinders think of a cheating partner. What do you think of cheating on your partner.
Is it legal to marry in US if guy is on h1b visa status and girl is on visitor visa(b1/b2) #relationships #marriage
We are couple based in Texas. We have a couple who has been our friends since a decade but they always find faults in me or my spouse in situations where we didn’t even think that we are hurting them. It’s like every few months we unintentionally do something that either hurts the husband or the wif...Read more
27 year Asian man, graduated last year, things were good back in school as was busy but with work it get too boring after office, What do you guys do after office ? Trying to get to gym but not regular
Hello women in tech Is it a turn off if a guy looks fit , handsome , dresses well and makes a good $$ and good company but drives an old junk car ?? I saw a girl in my apartment by the elevator - she shared with me her apartment number - (she asked if I live on the same floor and then she said sh...Read more
I don’t understand why men who want children aren’t just going the route of surrogates. Baby mommas nowadays are just a liability.
I have been dating my bf for 2 yrs and we are about to get married. He wrote on his dating profile that he was at G. Now just before marriage, he tells me that he had the job before our relationship started for 3 years, and now he is at some shit tier company because he couldn't find any better. Wh...Read more
Has anyone done this? How has it been? Some say marriage without passion is lame cause friendships is more important but others say marriage with passion and at least some compatibility is fair enough. Then others say passion dies out.. I get it, for some people lifestyle and social class is import...Read more
Recently learned that most gay couples of > 1 year are in “open relationships”, which means they allow hooking up separately..! As a straight guy I wish I could form a similar arrangement. Why is it only a privilege for gay couples? I’m 💯 straight so I can’t really join a gay relationship.
https://twitter.com/MichaelAArouet/status/1787032408337838085?t=SP99-CraKnYQlMI_Nw-mvQ&s=19 Looks like a tsunami of desperate women is coming... Bad news for the country as this suggest deep drop in population, similar to what S.Korea, China and Japan are facing. I interpret this as a lot of women...Read more
I have issues with my spouse as he never supports me anywhere, only criticizes me and thinks it's my fault everywhere. Any solutions?
I found out about this and it’s disgusting. It kinda confirms that I am outta his league and I should do better. There’s gotta be some5hing wrong if I am dating the same guy that that girl dated. I feel like I am discounted now. The other girl is ugly, and has no real career. Like I don’t even know...Read more
I recently had an interesting conversation with my therapist, and I'd love to hear your thoughts. For context, I've typically dated caucasian men, but lately I've been trying to branch out and date men from different backgrounds. However, I've had some off-putting experiences (overly aggressive phy...Read more