For those of you who have been married for long, outside of on and off bad days which is a part of any relationship, does your spouse overall make you a better person? Or have you numbed down to not take the noise for whatever reason (kids, society, value system) and hold a neutral view of everything that nothing actually bothers you? TC 350k
At present:No - i left all my good qualities behind and I'm at my worst now. Such that i don't believe on myself on mirror. In the past: it was neutral. Future: no one knows
How does it help to know? If anything the less fortunate ones feel even more miserable after reading good stories about others.