AMDY78t3ji

Done with dating apps

I’m so done with dating apps! Have used hinge for 2 ish years seriously and have had plenty of dates that went good and also ones where we weren’t interested, the usual things. Have tons of matches with beautiful to good women and convos are non-existent to a couple go backs, along with great conversations and then dates with them. Getting plenty of numbers and sometimes things go places and lead to dates and sometimes girls just don’t even bother talking because it’s from an online dating app. 100’s of matches and girls are just all over the place with responding and me as well with ignoring some and then having 3-7 convos at a time. I know how to have convos, maybe some of these times I wasn’t as available to talk or on my mental game so results weren’t as good during some times. I’ve known and also been told a few times that girls don’t take online dating seriously and of course some do. I’ve felt to understand and practice this, have thought to go out and meet girls, and have done a little to barely none of this in person. As of last night I’ve realized and accepted that this is really true! Plenty of relationships come from dating apps yes, but in person meeting and encounters are natural and have a feeling of oh we are at the same place there’s alignment on some level of life here, so there are higher odds of it working and just flowing better vibe wise. I will keep current hinge profile and improve it some to best of my ability and just leave it at that. If something happens then it happens, but I’m not going to rely on these dating apps to meet someone, let alone find love. Dating online can be good but also a joke, it’s not natural. I have heard and guarantee most people matching with people will actually give you a chance/ better if meeting in person. #dating #relationships #marriage

Pinterest ToyForSell Apr 29

The problem is also that people that are in dating apps have a lot of people in a the pipeline. Because of so many options, there is no real emotional investments. It applies to people that you met online, as well as those that you met offline because they are active in apps

AMD Y78t3ji OP Apr 29

Yeah.

Tech Mahindra rtnrk06 May 1

I am in the same boat, struggling to find someone compatible on dating apps or matrimony

AMD Y78t3ji OP May 1

It’s quite something. I think most people who don’t work on themselves are immature for sure

Tech Mahindra rtnrk06 May 1

@AMD: My reason for not finding matches is because few want a marriage eventually, most prefer an indefinite live in relationship