I've been feeling depressed and after a few sessions with my therapist we concluded that wife has been manipulating and gaslighting me, and I am a victim of abuse. I need to leave this marriage. I talked to a few friends about this, one of them supported my decision, while other told me most indian women are like this, and I might be in the same situation with my next marriage. How to take this decision? #marriage
Leave them, short term pain for long term happiness
Having dated a lot of non-Indian and Indian women, I do empathize with you. I felt the same way with every Indian woman. Constant guilt tripping, passive aggression, manipulation, crying, etc. for no valid reason aren’t worth it.
Whats the behavior of ur wife
Yelling, threatening divorce, name calling, sex only twice a month.
If she's already threatening divorce, it's a done deal that that's how it's going to end. Get your ducks in a row and divorce her first. The plaintiff gets a little more control over the process. My ex wife filed for divorce on me and then dragged her feet on the paperwork for years.
If you're in the States & don't have a solid prenup, you're fck'd financially. Go speak to a fam law attorney and man up.
India doesn't have the concept of prenup. She had more money before the wedding. She earns equally so I am not fckd financially atleast
Indian women are worst these days. Continuously talking with their family, sharing every bit of details. In most cases, they will feed crap in her mind. If you want to have discussion, it will become argument before you even realize, playing women card, prego card, its a never ending tail. My advise to you is - stop thinking about it. Detach yourself completely. Have fun in your space, hang out with friends, more happy you will be, more depress she will feel but never argue. Just stop any conversation with sorry and move on.
How educated is your wife? Some educated woman and not much educated but cultural women are supportive understanding and mature. Also, there can be a possibility of other underlying causes for her to be like that, like she may not like this marriage, she lacks something etc.
Similar education as me
What is this behaviour Puja?
Show her whose the man
My sister is like this with parents and me. Don't worry, she'll gaslight you to thinking you're the problem, when you bring it up too.
Cool sure what's TC
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Dude. Get help