Tech IndustryOct 22, 2022
Microsoftworriedman

Manager is similar age

Hello, is it embarrassing if your manager is same age, younger or bit older? I like working under her. But my friend told me it makes me look bad and I should switch teams or company. My name is a reflection of current economy FYI. Tc 190K

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Microsoft worriedman OP Oct 22, 2022

I meant reporting to her..

Roblox YourIC4.99 Oct 23, 2022

Sure you did…

eToro etoro Oct 22, 2022

As long as you don’t mind being under her, you good

Nutanix tbpz Oct 22, 2022

No. It is not awkward. It is only awkward of you or your manager is not matured enough to understand that being manager is just a job role. It doesnt mean that you are THE King. If your manager is not matured enough than leave but if it is you than please stay and stay calm.

Wayfair vbndr231 Oct 22, 2022

It’s usually not a good thing in your early career. It happens more frequently in management levels - like a lot m1/m2 are older than their boss. But like IC levels lower than m1 probably won’t be a good experience. Those comments will most likely tell you age doesn’t matter, but I saw a couple cases in Faang that some new PHD graduates (>30) reported to some managers younger than them (younger than 30). They all turned to really bad experience.

Robinhood tiny_fella Oct 23, 2022

Bruh, I'm solidly in my 30's and my manager is like, idk, 27 or 28? Didn't even think about it until now. Probably would be a little awkward if it was like a 20 year gap, or if you were an L3, but I don't think it matters if you're within 10

Uber loselose Oct 22, 2022

No.

Meta xWEc07 Oct 22, 2022

Why does it matter? Age means nothing? Fucking rockstars that rockets to L7 in 5 years exist while majority of people are stuck on 5. If anything I like a younger manager, they are usually less salty and willing to go to bat for me.

Microsoft worriedman OP Oct 22, 2022

My friend did not tell me directly but I think he was trying to say it makes me look like underachieving underperforming person..hard to gain respect that kind of thing

Microsoft rt@ll Oct 22, 2022

Your friend is full of shit. Age isn’t the key here, the person’s maturity is.

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exxf Oct 22, 2022

I like working under her > That's what she said 😂

Google skh23u Oct 22, 2022

Why would she say that She gay?

Square ok_sure1 Oct 22, 2022

What in the world are you talking about? CEO's these days are kids so everyone in that company should quit ?

Microsoft gitp Oct 22, 2022

Your friend is stupid.

Qualcomm bunkseenu Oct 22, 2022

Sometimes you gotta be on top too, my friend