Previous thread: https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/8bZncvfh My wife did some digging, and spoke with another woman in the office who is breastfeeding, and this other woman did notice some of her milk missing at the end of the day. She thought it was just someone else taking it by mistake, even though the bags are labeled, but once my wife explained that she saw this trans woman leaving the mother’s room with milk, it all made sense. My wife and this woman confronted the trans woman about the milk, and the trans woman denied taking anything. The next day, HR wants to talk to my wife and this other breastfeeding woman, they are being accused of transphobia and making the trans woman feel unsafe. My wife did explain her side of the story. The company is now doing an investigation. My wife is really stressed out because of it.
By drinking it?
Yeah
Are there no cameras? Just ask security to take a look.
If there are cameras, I’m sure they will look as they investigate
I highly doubt a mother’s room would have cameras. Maybe there’s one outside the room. There’s no reason anyone who isn’t a nursing mother would need to use that room.
I am not even going to guess who will win this 😅😅
Hahaha they’re a sexual deviant. Put up a camera or something
Ewww, you wanna watch the deviant?
I'm the wife in this story, and actually I stole the milk. I would welcome a camera because I actually really like the idea of pouring the milk all over my unwashed body and broadcasting it for the world to see. It's the main appeal of my onlyfans account actually. Search me up my username is XxXmilkwifeXxX. I get banned a lot though for showing illegal content (snuff films).
God wouldn’t it suck if it was the second woman all along and she was starting drama This sounds like middle school. Your wife and the other woman handled this middle school girls.
That’s misogynistic
No. This is middle school mean girl behavior. Is your wife so unsatisfied at home she has to play Nancy Drew at work for any fun?
Yeah this belongs in r/thatHappened Instead of writing in previous post that "My wife saw someone stealing breast milk from company fridge, should she report them to HR?" Answer would have been Yes. Trans has nothing to do with it. If you had said "My wife has suspicions and no proof that a protected class worker is stealing her breast milk, should she gang up with her bestie and confront them together?" The Answer would have been a Hell No! Your wife deserves to be investigated and in my opinion, Terminated for Cause. She created a hostile environment by ganging up against a co worker with her bestie and harassed them.
Oh look an adult has entered the comment section.
My wife is a woman, minority in the company, so she is also a protected class. They were gathering facts before going to HR but I guess it backfired
Some people advised OP to put a lid on this topic and let bygones be bygones. BUT OP being the righteous one, decided to do the right thing. Which as Blind had predicted, backfired on his wife. Rule of thumb, 1. take videos and gather evidence before you make any case against people who ‘ARE protected by Society’ 2. If you work in a woke workplace, start applying outside. Lessons learned, don’t mess with people who are from Pluto or whatever extra terrestrial society they come from.
trans people can do no wrong. sorry for your situation
Can't have any conflict with the emotionally fragile or they'll blackmail you with the consequences of their own actions.
I'm the wife in this story and it's true that I blamed the trans coworker because I thought it would rile people up. I actually stole the milk because I dream of one day owning enough to fill a bathtub with milk and do a home milk birth. Unfortunately OP is impotent and can't get me pregnant, so my outburst of milk stealing was ultimately for no real reason. I hope you all can forgive me.