I’m in the Bay Area, and I’d like to understand how to positively stand out. I’m tall, attractive, great pictures, very fit, and high TC. I get a ton of matches, but only ~5% convert to first dates. What do you want to see in those first few messages?
Bod shots
Get off of dating apps and approach women IRL
Should I just get on my unicorn to approach women then? I’m a software engineer - I don’t have social skills.
Your mindset is what will hold you back. You can learn these things but it appears you don’t want to