Hello women in tech Is it a turn off if a guy looks fit , handsome , dresses well and makes a good $$ and good company but drives an old junk car ?? I saw a girl in my apartment by the elevator - she shared with me her apartment number - (she asked if I live on the same floor and then she said she lived here in this #) had a nice chat . Liked her coz she was hot but was kinda down to earth and a bit humble The other day - I was driving my shit car (2015 honda car that also has some dents) . Don’t wanna change it for some personal reasons and she was literally starting at me as I was sitting in the car (she was walking in the garage ) I felt judged lol TC 500k Yoe 10
I don't think so. https://youtu.be/l1L0THLRm9s
lol 😂
Dude: do you really want someone that judges you for your possessions? You'd have someone solely focused on money and status. It appears that despite your TC that you personally don't care about status or showing off (otherwise you would have a nice car). You want to find someone who feels the same that status and showing off is tacky and not a good thing. You'd want a girl who ALSO drives a practical car. That said: make your care nice for what it is: get it cleaned and detailed and keep it nice. Just because you don't care about status doesn't mean you don't care about keeping your things looking as good as they can.
Thanks bro !
No I feel like that’s a plus for me. I really like guys who aren’t into material things but simultaneously have good taste.
Maybe she was just trying to see you through the reflection. If she's being picky, just move on, plenty of women your age (early 30s?) aren't.
Don't overthink it. Ask her out and see how it plays out.
She just gave her apartment # don’t have her phone # or anything - should I knock her door ? Will it not be creepy ?
She likely slipped it into the conversation for a reason. If she was repulsed by you, the last thing she would do is tell you where she lives. The worst that can happen is rejection. If that happens, dust yourself off and move on. If you don't at least try, you will kick yourself for it later.
You didn’t tell her TC and your company already. Did you?
Didn’t tell tc but said company Looked at her LinkedIn - she’s my age , same level and so she should make something similar She drives a car of same cost but looks a bit new