Ok so I don't live in the US, but I need to understand TF are you guys doing?. Girls in the EU seems to be just fine, but I want to understand why is this happening in the US?. But seriously, I have read a couple of posts on dating as an Indian dating in the US went wrong or not able to get any matches. What exactly is not working in your favour?. Are the girls being judgy?. Is it you being desperate?. No offence, but I read this guy's posts and he was just "trying to date white girls and not anyone else ", I was like BRUH!. Is it some kind of ego that you JUST want to date an American/Canadian/White girl?. What's wrong?. #dating #marriage #relationships #Indian
They have small PP and they want to feel big PP energy. It's cringe I know.
Hey pewds,I didn't knew you are on blind
Sup mate!
Lived in the usa and Europe. I think the us is more obsessed with height. That could be a factor. (Europe may also be hard if you go to a german speaking country)
Lived in both the US and Europe - got maybe 1 match / 3 months (always ghosted). Was born and brought up in the West so not an immigrant. Spent 1 month in Asia, 50 matches per day, people who wanted to talk to you + hook up etc. Such a crazy difference. Has made me mad depressed about my romantic future in the West
Don't you watch the news? The USA is still very racist overall. Compound that with dating in the tech field where it's a sausage fest and we are seen as nerdy. It's very difficult.
But which part makes it hard?. When you're out on a date, what sensed as "this is not going good".
US is still racist, but is still one of the least racist out of all countries If you visit Europe or East Asia, or god forbid, the Middle East....
Now you’re starting to understand the subtle thing we do in the US. The real deal isn’t the loud racism you hear about in the news. That’s relatively uncommon. it’s the quiet stuff like this that is getting worse. You’re brown? date brown people. I’m black and dealt with this all to often before there were even dating apps.
Brown tech guys straight from India are bottom of the totem pole though dating wise. At least women want black men
Many factors. The very first factor is that most of the Indians are seen as nerdy which is a negative trait in a western girl's mind. Add onto that the awkwardness of Indian dudes not interacting a lot with the other gender and never properly learning how to socialize. Indian accent is viewed as not desirable too. The list can keep on going.
I don’t get it, either. I’ve only lived in the large, liberal cities though and I m good on height so maybe that helps 🤷🏻♂️ Haven’t had any trouble dating through my twenties and thirties
Indian American men don't have many problems. It's usually the average fob indian men that have a hard time. The good looking fob indian men again don't have many problems
And because most Indian men want to go back to India to take care of their parents 😀
I mean do they do cringy stuff on date?.
Done!. What now?.