Curious if this has happened to anybody. If a partner decides to not have kids in a marriage and the spouse is not happy about that initiating a divorce.. Background: Indian Arrange marriage. Male TC: $215k EDIT: Thank you all for your suggestion. I realize I missed key details in my post but few people genuinely understood what I am going through and were able to articulate my thoughts. On contrary, few people referred me as scumbag, terrible person, male entitlement etc. That's okay. World isn't all sunshine and rainbow. I hope you all have a peaceful life. #mentalhealth #drama
Surely you have that conversation before getting married?!
We sort of had a conversation about kids before marriage ... Got to the know the person better post marriage leading to my decision of not having kids.
Majority of the times conversations before mrg donât hold true after marriage. Rule of life - babies improve and spouses get worse as time passes.
Did this happen to you? Didn't you discuss it before marriage?
Why would you not discuss having kids even in arranged marriage setup?
Divorce of course. Find someone that wants/doesnât want kids
OP doesn't want kids
Not sure if he doesnât want kids with her or doesnât want kids at all
Weâre still doing this? I bet she will have kids with the next guy
perfectly valid reason. kids are a joy.
To you
Arranged marriage is still a thing in the 21st century?
In India.. Yes!
Are you actually unaware of real world and its the first time asking this question, or is it your miserable attempt to look cool? Arrange marriage is actually a thing and there is no evidence I have seen in my social circle that tells me they are less or more successful than a love marriage. Love marriage is a love marriage till the day of marriage.. after that its a marriage. It requires constant commitment and taking responsibility to make it work. Which same as arrange marriage. Dont act like a teenager and pretend there is more value in one or the other.
Even if you convince them, they might end up not taking care of the kids which is worse
There are over a billion of us stop making babies... And this is what happens when you have an arranged marriage why don't you ask your parents since they decided what you should marry... this is really pathetic in this day and age to have an arranged marriage without discussing these things first..
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Not having kid now or never? Lot of people are in situation of not having kids until thereâs proper growth or both have settled down considerably.
Never. Can't see my partner raising my kids.
@Op, every women has God given quality to raise kids unless she is drug addict. Give a chance to your wife.